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Audience of One

Life can be exciting.

Life can be hectic.

Life can be hard.

Life can be AMAZING.

There are people in our lives that make it beautiful.

There are people in our lives that make it hard.

It’s fun to share our lives.

It can be a relief to vent about our lives.

…and with technology it seems like we are on a stage of our own, sharing to all the audiences around.  When little Billy takes his first step we run to our phones to share with the world.  When we get in a car accident, we vent online: #dumbdriver #notmyfault #crying #justpaiditoff or so on. We live like the world is our audience.

Do we think about just shutting it down, looking up and telling the Lord about Billy’s first step?  Do we live like we have an audience of One?

There is One who watches us.  He really does care that Billy took his first step and that my car is no more.  He really does care how I treat people publicly and privately.  He is the audience I should care about.

I don’t think it’s wrong to share our journeys and cares with our friends but, remember, we should be living for an audience of One.

Love not the world, neither the things that are in the world. If any man love the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the Father, but is of the world. And the world passeth away, and the lust thereof: but he that doeth the will of God abideth for ever. – I John 2:15-17

Can you think of any other great verses that speak of living for God and Him alone? Leave them in the comments below.

Rejoicing in the Present,


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The Top Priority in 2015

I love this time of year! There are special things about every season, every holiday. But New Year’s Day feels so wonderful! A brand new start. Somehow, all the wrongs of the past year seem to magically erase as grace gives us a blank slate to write the new year on.

If you know me, you know I love lists, and I love paper! My New Year’s Resolution lists are usually long and detailed. Every area of my life needs a face-lift. My devotional life, my weight, my home schooling efforts, my music, my wife-life, finances, my cooking, my reading, church projects and classes, new things I want to do with my children, etc. I usually drown in these lists, but every year I manage to single out one or two that matter most to me, and figure out ways to make them work.

So often in my life, I evaluate, reevaluate, make lists, and try to better myself. I get caught up in to-do lists, and this program, and that, another Bible reading schedule, another cleaning schedule, new ideas for my kids, another type of menu. It makes me crazy!

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What does God’s Word say? A few things stand out in my mind as being “most important, top priority” on God’s list, and here they are:

“But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.” Matthew 6:33


“And thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind, and with all thy strength: this is the first commandment.” Mark 12:30

They’re kind of the same, aren’t they? Jesus is to be first, and all other things fall into place. If we give Him top priority, we will somehow become the things that matter to Him. Being a godly mother will come more naturally if we are truly seeking Him first, and loving Him more than anyone else. Our frustrations with the messy house will lessen as we become more like Christ, realizing our relationships are more important than our images. Our stress of feeling inadequate, or not-as-good as other moms will vanish, as we love Christ, and His love for us holds us, and is enough to love our children through us.

This year, let’s purpose to seek Him first, and love Him with all our hearts, souls, minds, and strength.

It’s top priority!

❤ Joy

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9 Ideas for Adding a Little “Magic” to Christmas!

Christmas is coming!! I know it’s not even Thanksgiving yet, but I really like to plan ahead. Since the Christmas season begins as soon as the Thanksgiving meal ends, it’s time to plan ahead!

If you’re like me, you make lots of plans to make this an extra special day, then before you know it, it’s here! You haven’t had time to prepare everything. Supplies should have been bought last week! But you’re too busy to go to the store today! You should’ve started the “12 Days” 3 days ago! You know how it goes… church dinners, family get-togethers, school activities, parades, shopping, cooking! Where do you begin? Where does it all end? You’re so tired you can hardly enjoy the season!


I’ve been looking on pinterest for some great (and fairly simple) ideas to start some new traditions for our family. I wanted to find some things that were fun and “magical” but also, things that would point our children to the Savior, and the true reason we celebrate this season! So, I want to share a few of those ideas with you!

1. Clear all unnecessary items from your calendar! Easier said than done, right? But seriously, I teach piano, but I have already wrapped it up for the year. Those few extra weeks off won’t hurt my students, and it frees up two afternoons EVERY week {plus all that cleaning – the lessons are in my living room}! Say “no” to things that are unimportant. Can that dinner with friends wait until after Christmas? Do you have to paint the bathroom right now? You can volunteer at the library in January. If it can wait, then let it wait. That way, you will have all the extra time you want to make Christmas special!


2. Have a Christmas Family Brunch. This one is simple, and we’ve already been doing it for a few years. We have the Boyer Christmas Brunch after we open our gifts. We live away from our families and are often on the road for Christmas Day. But on the day we have our “Christmas’ we do this. I have a pretty extensive menu (although it sure doesn’t look like it in the picture!), but I want to keep it pretty much the same every year. We have a hashbrown casserole. (This is the basic recipe except I use cream of chicken instead of cream of mushroom – also you can put it together the day before and just throw it in the oven that morning.) And the other “must-have” is Carrot Cake Cream Cheese Muffins. These are SO yum, and take a little bit of time to make, and that makes it more special! I shared the recipe here. (They’re still good if made the day before.) Besides that, we usually have some ham, biscuits, and sometimes a marshmallow-type salad like this, and always Sparkling Juice. A few rare treats really make this time memorable!


3. Make a Christmas Adventure Box. This one looks great, and I’m so excited to do it! It starts December 1st, and goes through Christmas. Each night, the children open the special “box”, in which you have already placed a wrapped object. This object is then used to tell a part of the Christmas story. Other topics are covered too, such as prayer, thankfulness, the legend of the Candy Cane, and others. I love the spiritual focus, wrapped in complete simplicity. And you could always go through the list (like I’m going to do)and use just 10 or 12 ideas instead of 25 days!


4. Go to a Christmas parade. I have already looked up the ones in our area so we don’t miss them! So check our your local paper or google it, like I did.

5. Make a pocket calendar. I’m going to do it this year. There are so many cute ones on the market, but I’m cheap! So, I’m going to take a beautiful Christmasy ribbon and add 25 marked clothes pins to it. Then I’ll grab a cute little felt bag (or a gift bag) to move across the ribbon and add little treats for my kids each morning. Here are some more ideas for diy pocket calendars.


6. The Christmas Book Basket. You may have seen this idea going around facebook and pinterest the last few months like I did. I bit, and couldn’t resist the simplicity and the cuteness. Read a Christmas book to your children each night! You can get a basket to sit by your tree or couch. Wrap 24 books and place inside the basket. Let your children take turns choosing one. Then grab some hot chocolate, a cozy blanket and read that book. This website has a lot of Christmas books that are tried and true. They are a mix of secular and spiritual. I ordered several from the library already, because remember, I’m cheap!


7. The Elf on the Shelf “idea.” You’ve seen it everywhere! It’s so cute, that little elf! But the story is that he is Santa’s helper, and he reports to Santa every night. So each morning, you will find him in a different spot. It’s so cute! But at the same time, my husband and I just aren’t comfortable doing it. So, here are a few variations. Hide a cute little Christmas-type figurine somewhere in your house each night after the kids are in bed (like a snowman). Then when the children find him in the morning, he can have a special treat for them. Or variation #2 that I like – have a nativity scene in your home, but have it empty. Let Mary and Joseph travel around your house until they arrive at the stable on Christmas Eve. Then in the morning, you can read the Christmas story to them and add baby Jesus, and the shepherds, wise men and animals. So sweet! And it’s just as fun!


8. Buy a new Christmas ornament for each member of your family. We have done this every year for our children, and for ourselves. Each year, we try to think of one of the major events or highlights of that year. For instance, we bought an ornament of the Alamo the year my husband and I took a trip to San Antonio for our anniversary! This year we are going to try to find a church, since my husband became a pastor this year. We also try to choose ones for our children that shows what they’re “into” that year.


9. Special Bible reading. I also found this awesome idea! But I have so many other ideas, I’m not sure if we will have time to do it. But, this is the link for a special Bible reading chart that takes you through the prophecy of the coming Messiah, all the way to His birth, and also passages on how Christ is supreme and deserves our worship and praise. There are also many other options out there for Family Christmas Bibles, and booklets. This is a great idea! You could also combine it with #3!

So, there they are! Share your favorite Christmas traditions (only if they’re simple, please!) in the comments below.

❤ Joy